Burnout: When Pushing Through Is Pushing Too Far
Let me tell you the truth about burnout: it doesn’t announce itself. It doesn’t show up one day like a headache you can trace back to a night of poor sleep. It creeps in quietly, slipping through the cracks of your ambition and your determination to keep going no matter what. It starts as a nagging fatigue, maybe a little cynicism, or the feeling that you’re just not quite yourself lately. And before you know it, it’s wrapped itself around your entire being, leaving you hollowed out and exhausted.
I know this because I’ve been there. Burnout doesn’t discriminate, it’ll take down the most passionate, driven, and resilient among us. The worst part? We often don’t see it coming. We mistake it for being “just tired” or “a rough season,” but burnout is more than that. It’s the breaking point where your spirit and body agree that enough is enough.
Burnout isn’t just a state of being tired, it’s a state of being used up. It’s when you have nothing left to give, but the demands don’t stop. And somehow, instead of drawing a line, you convince yourself to push through, because that’s what strong, successful people do. Right?
However, pushing through when you’ve already hit your limit doesn’t make you stronger. It makes you vulnerable to breaking in ways that aren’t easy to fix. And if you’re like most people, you probably don’t realize just how deep in you are until you’re in too deep to climb out alone.
The Silent Thief of Joy
Burnout robs you of more than just energy. It steals your joy, your passion, and your ability to care about the things that once mattered to you. Your work becomes mechanical, tasks completed without feeling or purpose. Your relationships feel strained because you just don’t have the capacity to be present. You can’t even enjoy your downtime because guilt whispers that you should be doing more.
It’s not just about feeling tired. It’s about losing the spark that made you come alive in the first place.
I remember vividly the day it hit me. I was sitting at my desk, staring at the computer screen, and nothing made sense. My to-do list was staring back at me like a monstrous challenge, and I just sat there, paralyzed by the weight of it all. The irony? I had spent months telling myself that if I just managed my time better, planned more efficiently, and cut out distractions, I could power through. But burnout doesn’t care about your planners and productivity hacks. It’s not about being organized, it’s about being overwhelmed.
The guilt was the worst part. Guilt that I wasn’t strong enough. Guilt that I couldn’t handle what others seemed to manage effortlessly. Guilt that I was somehow defective because I couldn’t just keep up. But guilt is a liar, and it kept me stuck longer than I care to admit.
The Stories We Tell Ourselves
We live in a culture that glorifies productivity and accomplishment. Somewhere along the way, we began to equate our worth with how much we could achieve, how busy we could stay. It’s like our value is measured by how little we rest, how far we can push, and how resilient we seem.
But resilience isn’t about burning yourself out and crawling back to life. It’s about knowing when to step back and protect your well-being before it’s too late. It’s about choosing yourself before your body and mind force you to.
One of the most challenging truths I had to face was this: I had been measuring my value by how much I could endure. How much stress I could manage, how many hours I could work, how little I could sleep. But none of that made me better, it just made me burnt out.
It was only when I finally admitted to myself that I couldn’t keep going that things began to change. I stopped seeing rest as a weakness. I started allowing myself space to breathe, to step back without guilt, and to recognize that I was never meant to bear the weight of the world on my own shoulders.
That’s when a verse I’d heard countless times suddenly felt personal and real:
“ Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28
I had been carrying burdens I wasn’t meant to bear. I had convinced myself that pushing harder was the answer, but it wasn’t. Rest was the answer. Grace was the answer. Allowing myself to be human, and fallible and imperfect, was the answer.
Reclaiming Your Life from Burnout
Recovering from burnout isn’t a one-time fix. It’s not a weekend away or a single day off work. It’s an intentional choice to put yourself back at the center of your own life. It’s choosing to honor your limits, to value your health, and to believe that you are worthy of rest.
For me, it meant reevaluating the stories I told myself about success and worth. It meant setting boundaries, real ones that didn’t collapse under pressure. It meant learning to say “no” without feeling like I was letting everyone down. It meant prioritizing my own well-being because, honestly, if you’re running on empty, you’re not much good to anyone anyway.
I started small, allowing myself to pause and take breaks without guilt. I focused on nourishing my body with foods that fueled me rather than drained me. I gave myself permission to sleep in, to skip a task if I needed to, and to take walks just for the sake of being outside.
And most importantly, I gave myself permission to let go of the expectation that I had to be everything to everyone all the time.
A Different Kind of Strength
Strength isn’t about pushing through until you break. It’s about knowing when to pull back, when to rest, and when to let grace do the heavy lifting. The truth is, real resilience is sustainable. It’s about doing your best without sacrificing your soul.
If you’re reading this and feeling that familiar heaviness in your chest, the one that whispers, “This is me”, please know you’re not alone. You’re not weak for feeling burnt out. You’re not failing because you’re overwhelmed. You’re human. And you’re allowed to step back.
Burnout doesn’t define you. It doesn’t have to have the final word. You have permission to reclaim your life, not with more striving, but with more grace.
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